It’s easier to give in to being negative, telling ourselves something is too hard to do. It’s easier to follow what everyone else is doing, afraid to not fit in or miss something and be out of the loop. It’s easier to hide what you really want to say to get more “likes” on social media. It’s easier to post your thoughts that bias what you want others to see about you. But none of this is fulfilling and it seemingly makes our lives “harder” as we try to conform. It’s a lie to ourselves and we not only now this, but deeply feel this. It’s a fear possibly instilled from the tv news broadcaster watching out for the next story to humiliate a person’s flaws. What’s harder to understand though, is why we don’t take the initiative of being hard on ourselves to make things easier in our lives.